I’ve been reading The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People – and I have to say it is one of the best books I’ve ever read. I have read many books through University, and I have read a good half dozen books since I have been out (6 months actually – so about a book a month). What is really hitting me hard about reading all these books, and my ENTIRE University experience for that matter, is that it is all a tremendous waste of time unless you implement what you learn.
To me, that is simply the reality of the situation. And it’s funny, I remember professors and mentors saying it – and I thought “yah yah, is class over yet? is this going to be on the test?” Thats actually pretty terrible! I guess I can chalk that up to just being young and maybe a little bit immature as a result. I could also blame it on the fact that I didn’t really NEED to care about what was being said, I was just supposed to.
Fast forward to the real world – I am running my own business, I am now married and have a few obstacles in front of me until I start having children. Thats quite the progress – and quite the change of mindset to boot.
So back to the book – the first chapter teaches how YOU are the creator of your own life, and then the second teaches you that your LIFE must be your first creation. Does that make sense? I might not be saying it right. It teaches to begin and live your life with the end in mind. One of the most powerful parts is the very beginning where it asks you to imagine yourself going to a funeral of a loved one. You drive over, get out of your car, see friends and family in sadness, togetherness and reflection. You walk through the funeral home and approach the casket and you see yourself lying there. It is your funeral. You get a copy of the Eulogy and see that there will be four speakers – a family member, a friend, a colleage and a member of your community. What would you like them to say about you? How would you like to be remembered?
I actually wrote it down. This exercise helped me realize what is truly important to me- the ultimate drivers behind my life.
The chapter ends with suggesting you write a personal mission statement, and it provides a link to a website that helps you create one.
www.franklincovey.com (who’s life story is unreal).
So I built my Personal Mission Statement.
Here goes:
I am at my best when I am using my unique skills and traits to help others.
I will try to prevent times when I shelter myself too much.
I will enjoy my work by finding opportunities where I can help people solve problems.
I will find enjoyment in my personal life by providing security, freedom and pleasure.
I will find opportunities to use my natural talents and gifts such as Ethic, Integrity, Caring for others Welfare, Intelligence, Determination, Focus, Honesty, Sincerity, Creativeness.
I can do anything I set my mind to.
I will focus on enjoyment of life, pursuit of creativity and uplifting challenges.
Unite my team and push towards health, wealth, maturity, responsibility.
Add to the quality of life of my loved ones.
My life’s journey is to establish my family as one that is secured, healthy, wealthy, strong and happy.
I will be a person who believed in something bigger than himself, that there was a purpose behind every day of his life and he never lost sight of it.
One who devoted all his time and effort to the betterment of his loved ones and raised the bar for the standards in ethic, passion, determination and drive.
I will surround myself with family, and a handful of good friends who share my values.
My most important future contribution to others will be security, freedom, strength, land to live and profit from, access to resources and positive mind frame (created by leading by example).
Strength of character and ability will be taught.
I will stop procrastinating and start working on:
- Realizing my potential.
- Continuously improve my production capacity and set objectives for production.
- Follow through with action steps – implement the knowledge I have gained.
I will strive to incorporate the following attributes into my life:
- Choice and Control of circumstances and responses to life. Quality of life is created by self and rests in my hands.
- Consistency and perseverance in application. Devotion.
- Pioneering a family with responsibility and love.
I will constantly renew myself by focusing on the four dimensions of my life:
- Being physically strong and conditioned.
- Personal Values and Principles that guide the person that I am.
- Focus and Unbreakable Ethic. Determination.
- Living with Passion, Experiencing Love and Caring for others.











